H is has got the hint. I made a comment about him stalking me in passing on Friday and since the calls on Friday night, I haven't received one call! Bit sad about it, because I guess the separation truely starts from here. I still want to remain friends with him and enjoy talking with him but at the same time I also want him back. I hope your right when you say this won't push him away. I think it will, because he will shrug his shoulders, accept it and start to move away even more. I still want to remain connected. How can you do that and detach? I guess you can't?

H replied to an email that I sent him this morning regarding his forwarding address. When I got back later, he had emailed a whole list of things he obviously wanted to talk to me about amongst it some of the words that have stuck out were that he won't hassle me at all this week and it's obvious I don't want him in the house for too long. I didn't invite him for sunday lunch today, I have to say it was enjoyable with just the kids, D1 cooked and it was a cosy affair and even the boys were good company.

Could someone tell me if this is all positive? Am I doing ok?

All this is a 180 for me.

XD


P/A confirmed 5/03/08

03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage

T: 13
M: 8
D:20 & 17 from Previous M
S: 8 & 4
BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY
S: 13/10/07