Oh my God is anyone out there that can help -- these almost 6 weeks have been hell! It all came as a shock My H is having an affair with a co-worker, he has moved out I found out by accidentally running into him at the cell phone store, he's truck was fully packed and ready to go got an apt not far from here, it should have just moved in with her. Took all the checks to our joint account, I had 2 checks left in my book paid mortgage for Dec and bought food for the 3 boys. I am more than rock bottom, It has been a roller-coaster ride. We have ben married for 18 years! I think he may just be going thru a mid-life crisis but ... Oh my god! The pain is unbearable ... the shaking has not stopped he called me at work adn got confrontional with a supv who had me pull a restraining order because it was that bad. I want him to go DV counseling and of course some major parenting classes. I want my marraige back I want it put back together but in differnt pieces I want a secure and faithful H ( he has never done this before). Help desperete to talk to someone who is wanting the marraige back -- my friends think it's over --
