Julz, I know I mentioned this before, OW in my sitch is a low life, too. I agree it's not because she's great and you're not. (She obviously isn't.) A big part of affairs is the emotional aspect. I know that was a big part of my H's affair. He was not happy with our M, neither was OW happy in hers. I'm sure she played that card to her advantage. It was pure emotional attachment. When I think about the fact that my H could even consider leaving me for her, I want to leave him!
She will reveal her true self, sounds like she already is. She will dig her own grave. Let her be nasty, angry, desperate and clingy. If you DB and GAL, you will be the opposite and in the long road, be the more attractive person.
