It doesn't make any sense. But it's not because she's so great and you're not. He's immature, selfish, wants to feel free...whatever. I'm so sorry you are in this situation.
If you want to see reasons/dynamics of an affair...check out marriagebuilders.com. But use Michele's advice...not theirs. Theirs is the After the Last Resort Technique. You have a lot more options. (Divorce Remedy)
If you need to laugh...First Wives Club....Diary of a Mad Housewife.
Hang In There.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
