I know what you mean about finally being heard on some levels. That's good. I think ourcrisis is right, he will probably waffle a bit more. I like Joie's question, what will you do while he is waffling? Are you tired of it? Can you stand it some more? Do you want this marriage back? I am glad your boundaries were discussed as well. Amazing they can't realize (without us telling them) how hurtful this can be for us.
I bet you OW is pushing him to divorce you all the time.
