Im glad your H wants to come to the BB to get advice. That is a huge step. Actually seeing him make an effort. Its something I am longing to see, but maybe in time.
I hold lots of resentment about sexual issues too. It actually bothers me a lot. I dont know how to get over it just yet, so I dont know that I can give you any advice on that issue.
Sounds like you have some exciting events planned for the near future. Good for you. Try to focus on those events and less on the day to day drama of your R. Im probably not the best one to give that advice. I have let myself slip into that catagory, but am going to start working hard at getting away from it. I can see how much it is affecting me. I dont want to see it affect you.
Welcome aboard CJay!
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
