Don't exactly know why, other than feeling emotionally empty toward my W, but I responded very negatively to her getting angry about me bringing down some christmas decorations. Long story but pretty much broke every rule, except for the fact that I am not beating myself up about it at all and knowing although negative and expressing "my wants and desires multiple times, I responded in a different way than before.
Sounds like the stress of what's happening is wearing on you. You sound angry, too, and maybe that's the new thing you're showing W. What do you think? How's that detachment coming?
Originally Posted By: CVA
One key pt was I told her if we are going to be friends (which she has never heard from me before) that I "need" more help around the house and communication. Yes I know,not good, oh well.
CVA, do YOU want to be her friend? Have you spent any time thinking about that?
Originally Posted By: CVA
So no doppleganger tonight, I have this suspicion that although there is an attraction she may be cautious about going out with recently been wounded CVA., well see she should call me tomorrow.
Hope that didn't get you down. There's plenty of time, yet. You're still in the thick of it, from what you're writing here (emotionally, I mean), so maybe that's for the best just now.
