Bhopeful, your night sounded wonderful, I'm very happy for you!
It sounds like she is having second thoughts about things, so keep it up, stay cool, don't get mad about stuff like the wedding ring, etc. Just do what you've been doing, it seems it is working!
Me: 43 W: 41 Together 2009, Married 2011 Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5 Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021
