H stopped by last night at almost 7 pm and threw his check at me. I was puzzled what stick was up his butt. Then he mumbled something but when I asked he would not repeat it. I replayed it in my head and I believe he said something like if you want a war you got it. I have no idea what could have caused this except the sil e-mail but even that doesn't seem like it could have caused this behavior. I had cleaned the house Fri, moved boxes of his stuff into the garage. I noticed some more stuff of his missing, again he must be doing this when I am still at work. I noticed some of his framed art off the wall so I took down one I got him last xmas and put it also in the garage. So I rearranged a few pictures to change it up a bit. He made some other comment as I walked by that I forgot one. I wasn't even sure he was talking to me so I ignored it. Found out later he took our wedding pic down from the living room and leaned it against the dining room table. I promptly put it back up. What the hell? He asked if we were going to get along on Thanksgiving and I said it was up to him. When he left he looked at me so for once I made eye contact and we had a staring contest. It is the first time in a long time I made contact. It was painful. I know he felt it. So he left. But apparently he was visiting neighbors because I went to get D8 at the neighbors and his truck was still in the driveway and he had been there. Weird, huh?
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08
