Time for healing without closing the door

[WCW]

Howdy CMC, took me awhile but I finally got here.

I want him to leave me alone.
I am letting this guy get to me

I am sure someone has already said this but - don't answer the phone, let it go to voice mail. This would be a boundary set by you. I don't think it would even be wrong to let H know that you will not answer your phone, and you will only discuss things regarding your dd. You refuse to give him the power of pounding his weird sense of right and wrong into your thoughts.

I just had a grocery store episode too, an ow sighting. I wish I had been looking like a million bucks and having a 'strong' day, but I was caught off guard and left the store with the loaf of bread I stopped for. On a good day, I would have trotted up and down the aisles to deliberately bump into her. And now, a day later, I think I came up with the line I will use the next time I see her. I hope she asks me how things are. My response will be "up and down most of the time, just like sex. Know what I mean?"

I am sorry you feel so alone, I do too, many of us do. I can GAL til the cows come home but when they're all tucked in for the night I am still alone. After all this time I still don't know the answer to that.