I Will Survive!

[sage]

Sage, and everyone else with these issues, here's another book title for you: "Stop Controlling Me!" by Richard J. Stenack PhD.

Thanks for this! Just put it on reserve at the library (aren't online request systems awesome?)

What's interesting to me is that although I have been cast as the main Controller in our R, there are certain aspects of H's behaviour which were/are themselves controlling (witholding affection for one).

Yah -- just because I'm overtly controlling doesn't mean that I'm the only controlling one in the bunch.

I love the exchange you had with H. over the book -- seems like very good stuff.

Sage