I think your right. He only hears what he wants to hear. He obviously doesn't care that he still talks to OW. He doesn't care that she is stalking me. He doesn't care that people think bad things about him. Its all what suits him and what is best for him only.

He had the nerve to ask me to have dinner tonight. Then in the next text ask me if he could borrow a bit of money as he is short. I said I was tight myself and couldn't.

OMG, my exdh is a user! I bet I won't hear from him now for awhile as he has his feathers ruffled that I rejected him. He spent a total of about 30 minutes with me since last weekend and he wants to borrow some money!!!

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!