1) What types of male behavior/attributes do you think tend to make women "willing" to have sex?
2) What types of male behavior/attributes do you think tend to make women "aroused" or "desiring" to have sex?
3) What male behavior/attributes do you wish made women "willing" or "aroused/desirous"?
4) If your answers to 1 and 2 are different than your answers to 3, why do you think your "wishes" are different than your view of reality or in other words in what ways do you think your tendencies towards being a romantic are interfering with your real world functioning?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
