Mojo I said to the other guy "Yeah, he just gets by on dating significantly younger women." GP just shook his head and said "That's cold, baby. That's cold."
This part was or wasn’t OK "Yeah, he just gets by on dating significantly younger women." But if it bothered GP, I agree with Lil.
Maybe if you said something like “ I can keep him from needing those pills” and winked, that would have been much better.
I am almost 64 real soon and I wasn't offended, but I took it a different way. I do see where it could be out of place especially if said in the presence of a man experiencing ED or if he took it to mean he had a series of young women, use them and toss them my guess, then yes it was wrong.
Maybe GP is like me, I never wanted to be labeled as a “use and toss a gf” guy. I bet he prides himself on selecting the right woman and keeping her a long time. Some guys want to be seen as non-players.
Lots of 50+ women on another forum have said their H had some ED with them, but with the younger OW, he got real hard. Maybe that younger woman comment is something hard wired into women? I can see where the younger woman bantering can be a typical tease.
I have heard women say if they had bigger boobs, the H would like the W more. Now that bothers me!
Why? Because normal/marginal equipment handled well, is so much better than the defeatist attitude some of these women displayed.
Attitude about yourself plays a part in some cases, male or female.
I wonder how many men need Viagra because they have been beaten down, rejected, and not in a position of being valued/appreciated?
This part was or wasn’t OK "Yeah, he just gets by on dating significantly younger women." But if it bothered GP, I agree with Lil.
You guys. GP was chuckling when he said "That's cold." His overall behavior towards me sets him up to be teased in that manner. He thinks that I am too shy or modest about the fact that I am "built" so he is always saying stuff to me like "That boy who took our tickets wants you bad." or he'll do an impression of two old guys at the casino mumbling and drooling about my "hour-glass figure" etc. (really I'm just too absent-minded to notice guys checking me out all the time). So, in a way, he was using me to tease the other guy, like I was a new car he was showing off, so it was fair that I turned it around on him.
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I have heard women say if they had bigger boobs, the H would like the W more. Now that bothers me!
Well, that's just because you are clearly an *ss man. Cobra might have something different to say on the topic.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Burg, I'm not suggesting that you or any other man WILL have ED issues when you're older. I'm suggesting that it will likely be a SENSITIVE issue when you're older, even if you don't have the problem.
Anyway, make sure you keep your blood sugar under 100 at all times (preferably under 90), your blood pressure at or under 120/80, your weight down, get lots of exercise... don't want anything interfering with circulation to the important parts.
EVERY guy (even my late H and bf) plans on having the stamina of Lou when they're 50, 60, 70...
By all means date the younger women, however. Nothing wrong with that!
Anyway, make sure you keep your blood sugar under 100 at all times (preferably under 90), your blood pressure at or under 120/80, your weight down, get lots of exercise... don't want anything interfering with circulation to the important parts.
I should add: don't smoke, don't drink to excess, and-- the most important thing-- don't have a family history of heart disease or diabetes.
I plan on having the stamina of Lou when I'm 52. And dating lots of 42yo Mojo's.
Unless the men I've had sex with lately are liars there aren't really "a lot" of me out there. Of course, you can increase the odds by hanging out on Adult Attention Deficit BBs or you could just wander around supermarkets and bookstores and stare steadily at women who appear to be rather hyper and dazed and unaware that they are wearing a black bra under a white t-shirt and are in danger of running their cart into an end display. If they blush/flush up, smile and duck their heads when they notice you staring then you are good and all you have to do is approach in a friendly manner and let them babble until relaxed then just make one solid manly gesture like hand-to-small-of-back and then it's pretty much a done deal- unless some terrible person recently implied that she might be slutty in which case you might have to buy her a couple dinners and say something like "I really like you."
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Between now and then I'm going to learn to play guitar and bass, do a lot of lindy hopping and conserve my sexual energy.
I'm dead curious about why you are conserving your sexual energy. Is it because you want to concentrate on Health/Wealth/Personal Development and/or fun other than sex? I've had that thought myself but I am sadly lacking in discipline. Also, I have sad post-SSM validation issues which make it necessary for me to try and look sexy even if I'm not working on my sex life and that makes it difficult for me.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
I'm not suggesting that you or any other man WILL have ED issues when you're older.
Thank goodness! Half the people who email me think I already need to increase length and girth. Very helpful folk, but I wonder who they've been talking to.
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In the interest of my continuing pseudo-scientific research, I have a question for the men on the BB. Are there any of you who would not want to have sex with Bettie Page? (given that you weren't married, she'd have you, it was 1950-something etc. etc.)If not, why?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
