Read the lovelanguages book and I think I came up with 4 of them for myself. I think the main thing is to go with the one that is most important. It's a tough call though somethimes figuring out someone else's language.
BTW my W's is Acts of Service (I think).
The book is a pretty quick read. I read it in the bookstore -- Nice bookstore with comfy chairs !!!
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