Tonight "could" be intersting!?! Gonna hang out with a new friend and her friends, safety in numbers. YES, I will be careful
CVA,
Man it is nice getting attention after all these years, isn't it. Getting confirmation that "hotties" find you attractive and that you aren't going to have a hard time finding someone else that you actually find attractive is definitely a good PMA thing. Enjoy this... BUT...
BE VERY CAREFUL!
Reasons:
1 - Your wife already has a lawyer retained and actively representing her. If she gets wind of anything substantial she might decide to not trust you on working things out between the two of you. Heck, she might even get nasty.
2 - If you go too far with things in too short of a period, you ARE going to lose some of your perspective on things. It will add a new dimension of drama, which you really don't need right now.
3 - You really don't know all that much about this new person yet so don't put too much trust in her handling her relationship with you in a manner that would be in your best interest. To say that you are at a critical juncture is an understatement and you need to have as much control as possible.
So... Enjoy the flirting and definite ego boost that comes with this stuff, but try to control yourself. It's gonna be tough. Someone like this lady is probably pretty anxious to latch on to a 'catch' such as yourself. Understand that, and understand that there is more of that to come as you get farther down the road. There will be a LOT of women just like her that would jump at the chance to have a shot at you. Keep your R with her in check and proper so that you don't have any regrets, additional drama, or unwanted complications.
