Shiny, you are doing a great job! You are exploring yourself and asking legitimate questions to yourself...when you probably should be asking Mr Shiny. I know I'm calling the kettle black because of late I have been afraid to ask questions for fear of knowing the answers. You are further along in your dbing than I, or at least much stronger. So, ask away if you feel the need to.
But be careful...my W is tired of answering questions. I'm afraid if I keep asking, I'll make her feel even more guilty and push her away.
Where do we draw the line on when to stop with the questions?