Do you wonder sometimes, if some of the women you know who are complaining about their H's and being unhappy in their marriages are women that are very astute and are noticing perhaps some of the very beginnings of a MLC at work in their spouse? Perhaps instead of being worried or concerned about the changes in behavior, they are annoyed with their husbands and are already thinking of throwing in the towel...before their H's have even gotten up the courage to walk out the door. Just something to think about. I know in my own situation before the "bomb" my H was not treating me right. At all. And many other women might have said, "To heck with this" and left before the A was even uncovered.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
