Say hi to Mr. Shinybear for me, and quit giving him so much grief. He's making you dinner and brought you wine. No picking fights tonite, okay? BTW - I think your H was trying to make a point last night about the importance of honesty in the R. And no, that doesn't mean picking at scabs - but what my H and I have learned is that when we're trying to "protect the other person" we're usually trying to protect ourselves, and that when we get little concerns out in the open, they don't fester into bigger concerns. Scary, I know, but we are learning to do it.
