Need some advice from you wise DBers. I havent really told anyone about what the W is doing other then some family members and a few coworkers who are going thru the same thing. D20 is starting to question what mom is doing, and i need to know if i should tell her the truth? I have been telling her that mom is struggling with the D and is having other issues. People at church have been asking why we dont come together some times. Do I tell them all what's happening? Part of me says to tell them she wants a D and is having EA/PA, but the other part tells me that i dont want to destroy any chance of reconcilation. I know these people would be devastated if they knew the truth. So how about it? Any thoughts on how to handle this sitch?
