I think on the whole these are positives as "somethin' ain't right with him and all these stalker calls. He senses you are pulling away and that MIGHT pull him back but he'll continually doubt any changes in you are real, so stay at them.
Keep the upbeat happy woman with fun, friends, children she adores, who is interesting AND interested, in short ---BE A WOMAN ONLY A FOOL WOULD LEAVE--- that should be the motto
Keep up the good work and tell him if you must, that you don't always know where he is so you don't constantly interupt what he's doing. You'd like the same sensitivity from him at this time. You know, a little Privacy for now? HE HAS IT, why can't you? Be a LITTLE mysterious, a little more detached, after all, thanks to HIM, HE"S gotten YOU having to think about being single again. You've discovered it isn't all totally nightmarish for a woman like YOU...in fact, truth be told, part of you is actually starting to look forward to the things you're finding that YOU want to do. Even when it hurts to do it. Fake it til you make it actually describes a new behavioral modification theory. Actions creating feelings rather that waiting for a feeling to come before you do the act (ie Behave lovingly, and chances are you will feel more love///and get more)
Keep posting and keep on keepin' on. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
