isn't it weird that in a m, one person can feel safe and pretty happy, while the other is having a secret life?
i sometimes feel like our m was a lie for years. h had ow for 2 yrs off and on. over 6 mo was pa. i wonder how someone can keep a m going for so long while being intimate one way or the other with someone else. do you ever feel like your m was a lie for the time that your h had affairs? i am curious how to deal with this myself and you teach psych.
i am truly impressed with how forgiving you are, i need help in that department. lisa
