WOW WOW WOW!!
I could not be any happier for you. This is a huge step in the right direction! I've read a lot of stuff on these boards and it still never ceases to amaze me just how 'textbook' each of our stories are. Knowing these tecniques work gives me so much motivation to keep at it!

Good for you for keeping your cool and for validating what he said.

You rock!
J~


M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out