SB -- Awesome thread title!!!

Your recap reminded me how strong you are!

Quoting shinybear:

Only sour note was when H asked what I wanted for my birthday. I almost said (should have?) something I don't have to ask for!

His gift giving was great in the first year or so, thoughtful, inspired....but let's just say it's been less and less so over the years.

Mind you, buying for a critical perfectionist probably hasn't been the most fun thing either .



Ah...VERY insightful! Maybe H. needs to get to know the real SB?

Good move on the note, too. I like that you let him know he could approach you..

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.