it's as if all of her 'sins' and misdeeds have suddenly caught up to her and they are evident in everything she does and says. The mask is off, that's all. I am no longer looking at her as someone I love but instead as someone who has hurt me. I hate this feeling.
I feel this too. I think its detachment, and kind of like us coming out of our fog, seeing the person in front of us is not who we married (and wondering if they'll ever return).
I know what you mean about feeling 'suckered' that things were better, then being shocked. I had this happen a few times this summer. Its awful, almost worse in a way. I am so sorry!!!!
