My buddy (dh) called a few times today. We talked about Thanksgiving details. We are having his family here. Should be fun.

I guess its things like this that leave me shaking my head. He wants us to do holidays together, prepare my house for this baby, spend some time together and then BOOM! Back to not making this R a priority.

His last call a few minutes ago consisted of him telling me what a busy night he had ahead with his kids. One was going to a friends and the other was having a friend spend the night. No mention of spending time together. It would have been nice for him to have his daughter and her friend here with him, but he wants to stay home. At least he isn't inviting the friend here and then leaving to be alone by himself.

Its like we are being back to buddies. When, if ever, am I going to be a priority?

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!