Thanks again for posting Azhira. I've heard many times that after a person begins dating and forgets about their ex-spouse, then they (the ex-spouse) become interested again. I know I'm not supposed to think about her and the OM, but it is still really difficult. I have heard through mutual friends that she is still acting extremely selfish. Everything now seems to be about her. She doesn't seem to be concerned about losing most of her friends, because she just spends her time with her boyfriend. I also heard she was going to call up an old friend whom she hasn't spoken with in years to ask her to host one of those jewelry parties. This seems to pretty much nail her behavior on the head.
Stay patient I keep telling myself. She'll eventually realize how she is acting. Or maybe someone will grow a backbone and tell her? I also found out that my oldest daughter has been really upset with her relationship, mainly because she felt misled. My ex told D11 that he was just a friend. Am I really crazy or is this just totally stupid and self-centered?
It seems lately like there is this communication barrier that neither one of us dares to breach. I keep hoping that she will forget about OM, by remaining in the weeds - totally out of view.
