Without knowing about your stitch, I wouldn't go. You want him to come back to you not because she has left the state, because he wants you. Don't go just because this will drive her away, go because he wants you there, but by your post it definately looks like he wants it both ways.
Just my opinion.. It looks like he's enjoying this.. I wouldn't want to be a part of it.
good luck.
tal
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