I'm trying to think of a parallel sitch: let's say you and GP were out at the drugstore and you happened to be standing next to another woman, a stranger. On the shelf were "bust-enhancemant" products. The woman, who was flat chested, makes the comment to the ether that she wonders if these products work. GP says with a wink and a side glance at your chest, "Who cares? I've got stock in several silicone companies."
It would be more analogous if the other woman was a moderately/modestly chested salesperson and I started joking about how I didn't need bust enhancement products in front of her and then GP made some comment like "Yeah, but you rely on me to buy you all those super underwire support bras." Which I suppose I wouldn't find terribly validating but I wouldn't be too bothered by it either.
Anyways, this is a bad analogy because GP is much more responsive to the lower ratio of female gynoid fat distribution. Since I'm Polish and I work out a lot, I'm pretty much as close as you can get to a white girl with black girl booty which is a look which has gained quite a bit of popularity/social acceptability since I was last on the dating scene in 1987. By making a human guinea pig of myself I have determined that the scientific studies that indicate that base male sexual response is pretty much directly linked to gynoid fat distribution ratios are completely valid. Of course, there are individual variations and cultural values attached to other characteristics and this has nothing to do with the reality of being loved for one's pilgrim soul etc. So, although I am generally only reasonably attractive, I am lucky to have a good gynoid fat distribution overall since I like to be around men who are sexually aroused. I think most/many women make an error in judgment in terms of dealing with the loss of estrogen leading to reduction of gynoid fat ratio as they age by choosing to lose weight. Of course, losing weight will always improve your "attractiveness" for the simple reason that 20/30 is a smaller fraction than 30/40, however, this method of fighting estrogen-loss-ration-deterioration fails to take into account the fact that as men age their vision and other senses deteriorate as does their sexual responsiveness so if you are an older woman trying to "attract" older men, IMO, you are better off doing weight-training to keep yourself big and curvy so that the old guys can still "see" you. Of course, since I am only 42, I also attract some of the younger hip-hop generation kids and that's okay too.
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