KAH, Thanks for taking the time to respond to my post. I read yours and I really feel for you. I hope you are able to work things out with your H. I didn't post to you because I didn't think I had anything helpful to offer, other than support. I guess that's something though. You have my cyberspace support for whatever its worth! My H and I are actually doing pretty well after a long conversation we had last friday evening. SSM has been helpful in some ways and not in others. It is a good hammer, but everything isn't a nail. My lack of desire stemmed from some issues my H and I needed to address. I kept waiting for the sex to address those issues. It wasn't going to. More direct action was needed on my part. That led to the conversation on Friday. So far, and I know it hasn't been that long, my desire for my husband hasn't been a problem. The relative speed with which things turned around from that one long, in depth conversation has me quite hopeful. Thanks for your support!
