Ok, but I honestly don't know what you could say in a phone call that would get you in legal trouble, and it would be nice to know what she is thinking, intending, etc. before you get in court and in front of a judge who might like an answer to the question. Check with your lawyer if you feel better.

Take care,
Nomo

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