I don't think it's a smart thing at this point. She is showing that she is willing to do some very hurtful things to me legally, no matter what kindness I've shown her since leaving and what kind of father I've been for the kids. I don't believe I can trust her to do the right thing anymore, so I don't think it would be wise to talk with her about it (at least right now).
I have to provide evidence of discoveries on Tuesday at the Compelling hearing, and after that my attorney will be able to deal with her directly since her attorney will officially be out of the picture at that time and W will be representing herself.
I'll kick around your suggestion, Nomo, and obviously exercise the 48 hour rule.
Nice to hear from you -- I appreciate you taking the time to post your thoughts, buddy! If you find time, keep 'em coming!