Instead of assuming she is extorting money and/or what her motivations/thinking are, and based on those assumptions taking the golves off, could you talk to her or ask her about it?

Nomo \:\) (Yes, it's really me! I am alive.)

M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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