an xh, his FF, Thanksgiving, MIL, and one psuedo-R

[Dom R]

Oh...and Dom...did you tell her she looked nice?

hehheh.. thanks for the nudge.

I told her briefly, kindasorta. It was awkward.. we were semi "in public", and I think that she wouldnt feel comfortable with me complimenting her on how she looked right then.

but later, I made a point of talking to her on the phone for about a min before she went to bed,and telling her outright, that she looked "really pretty".

wish I knew what the best amount of contact was for her.
On the one hand, I know that talking is really important to her. On the other hand, I know that when I TRY talking to her every day... it seems to turn her off.
wierd, and frustrating dichotomy. tough to find a good balance.