Lin,

Thanks for the reply - I get better each week. Did not have any tearful conversations at all with H so far this week... I find myself over analyzing what he does or does not due and I at least recognize this pattern and it needs to stop! So I am aware and trying!

Illum,

Thank-you - I will continue to just go for it when in the mood!! Which wasn't always there before our crisis but it much more so now b/c once you lose something you realize how important it was and now I feel this is my second chance and do not want to lose it again!!

Have a great weekend!!

HB


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