Few forums are as willing to call you on your own bs as this one. That isn't flaming. Flaming is simply starting crap for the sake of it. Corri and others here are trying to be honest with you. Perhaps it is a tough brand of love but believe me it is for good reason. No one is suggesting that leaving would be easy. No one is suggesting that Ms. Right is right around the corner either. Whatever is making you ok with this R will cause trouble in another. Whatever is making you continue to alternately placate and "do for" you fiance' and then ineffectually blow up so that she NEVER needs make a change in herself will also cause trouble down the road. Stop this insanity and figure out what is going on with YOU. Your fiance has real issues, of that I am certain. They are HERS to deal with NOT yours. When she wants to, she will and not until. If she cannot even muster up some sex to placate you then you are in a bad way here. Wouldn't someone who really "loves" you at least throw some sex your way after you express your unhappiness about it (especially since you are only engaged, not married)? Before you assume that we are just some grumpy, mean, sex starved people who are passing out sour grapes try to consider that we may know what we are talking about (plus only some of us are currently sex starved and only some are grumpy. No one is mean).
