tostada,

My wife did the same thing in june. Same words and has since moved out. We have been married 8 years and have 2 small children. I pursued her for the 1st 5 months and now I have backed off and gotten on board with this whole process. I believe now that giving her the space she needs and me working on our friendship will bring us back together in a better place than we were before. Hang in there and try to give the space she needs. Definately read Dbing. I also am doing the telephone coaching and its great.