Ellie Yep, I remember those nuggets of wisdom from time to time.
Donna Thanks!!
mk Thank you! Yeah, I don't know why I didn't think about that google issue sooner. I'm into tech stuff, I should know better.
DB/DR for my H? Heck no.. not a chance. He stopped even going to the counselor because he didn't like her "making me think too much." Think it's also why he doesn't hang out with any of his long time friends when he's in "I want out and that's that" mode.
Care Thanks! Yeah the timing of that was excellent, for sure. At first I was thinking "Oh NO I already have too much going on" - but once I let myself get excited about the new job, it took over quick.
ST Thank you! Yeah... H (at least in the last convo we had awhile ago) wants me to move out completely. Actually I think he'd prefer (or says he would) it if I'd just disappear and rewind the last 12 years. So the room thing is not what he wants anyway - I don't exactly want it but feel I need it in terms of time/space to think. If he's not going to commit - well - I'll enjoy the small positives, but I'm done forcing myself to work on something that isn't there.
Funny how he starts coming around every time I make a move away though. Last night was showing me a bunch of car/racing stuff that he was really excited about. I joined him for awhile then went inside to do my own thing. I think that threw him a bit - wait what? you don't want to spend every possible moment with me?? I shared in his excitement and such, just didn't drop everything the second he seemed interested in spending time w/me. I think it was a positive.
haha funny point on the bellydancing. I guess the good thing is in a beginner class, everyone's so self conscious that they don't even notice what you're doing!
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
