Down and out...need hope.

[DownNotOut...yet]

It is real hard. I made and to a lesser degree continue to make the same mistakes. How do you think I can preach to you so well?

Don't send anymore emails. Try not to talk about what you are gonna do. Just do it. It is F'in real hard. Trust me, the only way it is gonna work out is if you get back with the program.

I think you and I have similar personalities and you are sure making the mistakes I did. I can tell you that the less I talk and the more I DO, the better it is. As soon as I push or try to reason, or even R talk for more than about 5 minutes, it all starts going backwards.

I think you will get another "inch". Realistically, you haven't been at it that long. You made a ton of headway in a short time. I think she will yo-yo back. This time go easier and slower. You know what needs doing and you want to stay married so go do it.

For better or worse, this is far from over.