Everyone here is an example. Everyone's experiences are examples as well.
We pick and choose the advice we heed. We gather mentors and friends.
It is up to us individually to determine if an example is what to do, or what not to do based on the goals we have.
MMF, while agree with you, your stance is based upon the person you are today, the person you are tomorrow is allowed to re-evalute that stance.
Ultimately, I think you are saying... choose the correct place/thread for your advice?
Heh, I cannot even get my boys to put their socks in the drawer I want them to go in, I see no joy in suggesting that a stranger post where I think they should.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK