Good job B! I say if a script helps you, more power to you!
I still get shaky when talking to my H about most things. It's probably because everything is so unknown and unexpected. And you don't know what's coming your way next.
You did well.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.