H called me at work this morning. First words out of his mouth were asking me if I had given his father a list of psychologists for h to talk to. I had not given FIL a list. I told H that i have not spoken to anyone in his family since the weekends fiasco.
H asked how his father would find out what my work insurance would cover. Finally....a lightbulb went on...his sister as well as his brother in law both work where I work. So....I know I will still get the blame for the initial contact to his family about his suicide threat (or manipulation...whatever it was) but I was not involved in this. I did tell H he should ask his dad where he got the info and he can verify it was not from me....
We politely hung up. He was not angry and did not raise his voice. I told the truth....the end.
H then called back asking if he had received a summons in the mail from the magistrate. H had some sort of traffic violation (driving with a brakelight out) and has been waiting for his summons. Not sure if the violation is the truth or if it was something else...but whatever.
I told H that I had not received it but if I do I will let him know ASAP. H said he doesn't neet to get arrested on top of all the other stuff going on.
So....who knows what this all means. Everyone agrees H needs help except H ....and he is the one that needs to want help before it will work. I am staying out of it. Focus is definately on the kids and the dog (who is feeling much better and seems to be recovering...).
Just hoping I get no spew from this. I feel so stupid I called my in-laws when I thought H was going to hurt himself. In my wildest dreams I never thought he could have been playing me.
Oh well. Still standing....but I feel like I am barefoot standing on glass.
