Help me thru this sitch

[DownNotOut...yet]

Hi,
Your wish is my command. I have been reading your sitch every day. I just re-read the whole thing again to make sure I am current. I have no humor to offer at this time but I do have some observations...

I have not posted to you in a while because it seemed you were moving along pretty well. This stuff takes time but your sitch seems to absolutely be improving. I have not read anymore about divorce or separation in any of your more recent posts. You sound better, he sounds better. Seems like you are baby-steppin' along pretty well. Perhaps I should say hi more often just so you know you have the support.

I think the thing for you that seems to really be working, is being playful and flirty, stuff like going to watch the dirtbikes. Those are things that you used to do when things were good. Try to think of, act like and do the good things that were happening when your relationship was more sparkly. FUN! Make you and the R fun. If it ain't fun, why would he want to be in it. Reading your posts, he seems to really respond when you are fun/silly/sexy. This really helped lure my wife back in. Whenever I can make it feel like the old days, she starts to act like the old days.

You mentioned that he is mirroring your actions. Michele says if you want to change the other person, change yourself. That is what I think is happening with youz guys (awesome!).

BTW, in print, you seem sexy as h e double hockey stick. You DO seem like you know how to flirt. This may be out of line, but one or two of your posts put little thought bubbles above my head. It's working for me. It HAS to be working for him.