She also said "If you could just understand how I feel?"

I said "Well, I can't so I am so sorry". I also said "This is just another thing to add to your List!"...

Here is her List so far. Her List has grown and changed this last two year.

The house is too loud

The kids may hear us

All you guys want is sex

Your angry outburst is causing me to not feel safe (This was quit after 3 months so waw over a year ago.)

Why do you have that as your #1 need

blah, blah, blah....