Yes, this thread is me for the last 2 years! Pain, pain and more pain. It is unbearable...
I told mine x-fiance, who is still living in my home, that she could stay as a roommate for a year until she finished nursing school. The condition was that she pay for utilities and cook. I pay for the food and discontinue all other support such as cell phones and gas.
This was two weeks ago and she agreed. I did notice that she was still wearing the engagement right. I thought this was strange but didn't say anything. We have been sleeping apart for awhile now. Man, do I feel so much better!
She asked me last night "Are you talking to other womwn?". I said "Yes, and why does it matter? We are split up and I will not bring another women home.". Well, she finally took off the ring and layed it on my nightstand. Damn! what does it take for her?
She wanted to talk and talk about hiw "she thought that since we were apart that maybe we could start dating again and see how it works out". I said "No, I am done... This has been going on for almost 2 years! You have broke me, I am finished....goodnight".
I am leaving to go out of town for the holidays. What a reprieve I need from her. No more drama!
