bluejay, welcome aboard. You're wise and I hope you stick around and tell us more of your story. I do know the tears over the hurt of rejection... and I'm not even married to the guy and no children are involved. I'm just stupid.
This thread is SO directed straight at me! These are all the things I need to hear.
It's ironic (and possibly a message straight from God) that Bluejay is directly related to my bf's primary nickname. In fact, when I saw the name, I had this fleeting thought...