I just wonder if indeed I am playing games with h.
Then again, I'd have to be pretty powerful and extremely clever to be able to 'play' him like this and make him act so that he would threaten me and damage things.
I tried to defend myself. I am not playing games with him. There are happier things to do with my time.
One of the things he said on Monday (on the phone) after the police order expired was that he thought I asked the police to serve him with that 24hr order. I didn't think I did, though my memory wasn't flash and I was pretty upset at the time. I asked the lady tonight on the phone and she said no, the police make their own decision to issue that or not and they have certain criteria that needs to be met before issuing one. I didn't ask them to do it. I don't think he really believes me.
I think I should bite the bullet adn apply for mediation. Also, as much as I hate to do it I'll have to change gyms which will mean shelling out $600+ for a gym membership elsewhere. Currently i have gym membership where my h works but I don't feel I can show my face there now...
