Still trying - Not very well

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Hey Limbo, I know what you mean about that fear that the C will tell him that he should go. I had that fear. Our MC, in one of the first sessions, told us that this was not a "safe" place. We might not hear what we wanted to. And, he did ask me at least once why I wanted to stay with my W. He asked in a way that made me think it might be a mistake to stay with her. I think it was important that I saw the sitch from that angle; that I could chose to leave. Scary though.

In the end, based on what the MC was telling us, I think he secretly was rooting for us all along. He knew, that at least with my W, he couldn't just come out and tell her. :-)

So, I think that whatever the C tells your H, or you, or you both, that it will be for the best. Despite what the C says, it is still his and your choice. But, I have a hunch your C wants your M to work. I guess he mainly wants both of you to be healthy and work out any issues, but being in a good relationship is part of being healthy, right?

Have fun at the party. My W will be in town tomorrow night. I'm nervous and excited.

Have a great weekend.