that's a shame, sadly, but honestly, he is a big boy and who should make his own sane desicions regardless of juvenile SIL (though it would help if she stopped that behaviour)
Not just you, I dont' get the bar hopping.

I'm near DC, about 4-5 hrs from you

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.