If you are starting threads like"if you're wondering, "should I try to reconcile with my wife?"...

then maybe you should start a new thread in this forum, asking that question." You might as well g to Toys R US and buy a magic 8 ball. I am looking for someone who has had a similiar situation, and things do happen for a reason. I am not looking for "What should I do with my life ?"type answers. We all have the answers to all of lifes questions inside us, its just getting to that information. Dom, you should really lose the anger, I have been with one person and am in a relationship, my ex has been with a dozen or more men, and is also in a weird relationship. To many hipocrits with halo's out there...remember we are all human.